| Below are e-mails and letters about how EndAllThePain.com has helped them. If you are interested in booking Vicki for your next event, please click here for reviews of the lectures and presentations Vicki has given. Date: February 10, 2008 Hi Vicki, My name is Amanda, and I am 17 years old. I just watched a YouTube video clip of a TV interview that you must have done, and I need to tell you how much it made me think. When I was 7, my uncle molested me, and I am just now starting to deal with it. I started cutting when I was 13 and still do, and I was date raped when I was 15. Life has not been so beautiful. But then I listened to all you said in this interview, and wow... it made sense. I've had God in my life since I was a kid, but I have NEVER given Him a chance to heal me. Like you said, I've given everything else in the world a chance... cutting, drinking, relationships, everything. I want to let you know that hearing what you said made me want to change, and that's a big deal, because I resist change like the plague. I want to thank you for being such an inspiration to people who feel trapped. You really make a difference, and God bless you for doing that! Sincerely, Amanda _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Wednesday, February 6, 2008 Hello Vicki!! I came across your testimony on a website as I was scanning through, looking for sites to show a friend of mine who I am trying to lead to the Lord.... and I just wanted to let you know that even as a believer, coming across your testimony is amazing and a blessing in itself! I love seeing the amazing things that God does in His childrens' lives! Praise GOD!!! You are a blessing Vicky! And I thank God for helping you and pray that what ever may come your way, that by the Grace of God you will get through it!! He truly is amazing, as He has saved me, and will save all of those who come to Him!! Be Blessed in the Lord forever and always!! Keep It JESUS! :0) -Sarina _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Sunday, December 16, 2007 My name is Kristin and I live in Missouri. I am 26 years old and struggle with self injury. I found your website a few days ago and was fascinated with your story and decided to buy your book. I finished your book this weekend and I'm absolutely inspired!! You wrote a wonderful book! I can only hope I will be able to conquer what you have in your life. I'm going on day four without harming myself. Believe me it has been a struggle!! As you know. This idea of God is new to me. I have been exploring the idea of a higher power. I believe and have recently been reaching out for help from God. I do believe He has had something to do with my four days of being injury free. I hope for my relationship with God to grow and only hope to know the peace that you talk about in your book. Have you thought about writing any more books? Thanks, Kristin _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Tuesday, October 24, 2007 Vicki, Thank you so very much for letting me know about this 700 segment. I watched it and I feel so blessed that you sent it to me. I am so sorry about your mother. She was a blessing to me at the time I wrote her so I could get another mother's perspective on how to help my daughter. I really appreciated her words and message to me. I could tell she was very loving. See Mathew 5:4. Sincerely, Marge _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Thursday, September 6, 2007 Hi. My name is Karen. I am 36 years old. I came across your web site. I just want to encourage you in what you are doing. I started cutting when I was about 9. I grew up with a father that wouldn't allow my brother and I express our emotion. I was abused and molested and learned to deal with all the pain inside. Or, at least I thought I did. Cutting was the one thing that made the pain go away. Now, I still struggle off and on with the cutting, although, I haven't cut in over a year (5 years before that). Anyway, I just wanted to write to tell you how much I liked your web site. God Bless, Karen Southern California _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ July 7, 2007 Dear Vicki, I am excited to see your work and ministry dealing with self-injury. I am a recovered cutter. I began when I was 13 years old, after I was sexually abused by a male member in the church. The church covered it up for the man and it remained a secret until I was 18 years old. My cuts were revealed and the people that saw them refused to believe that they were an accident. A couple at the college I attended helped me to overcome and justice was brought to the man that abused me. I am now 19 years old and I live to write. I wrote a book about my experience called Little Knife, Good-Bye and have just gotten it published. I am seeking to get it into the hands of people who have been where I have to give them hope, and wondered if you would feature the book on your website. I truly appreciate your ministry. May God richly bless you. ~Becky Nichols~ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ March 23, 2007 Dear Vicki, I don't know if you remember me, but I went to your conference that was held in Great Falls, MT a while back and I used to email you quite often. I would just like to give you an update of how I have been since I last spoke to you and what I have been up to. I joined the US Air Force in July of 2006. I went to basic training on November 1st and am currently enrolled in Tech School at Fort Leonard Wood, MO. I am graduating soon so I am pretty excited. My life has changed so much since I went to your conference. I have read your book several times and am finally on my way to a better life, a successful life. I can't even think of where to begin to thank you for everything. Even though my fiancé' and I broke it off a couple months ago, things have been amazing. I love my job and I love what I will be doing and where I will be going. Again, thank you for absolutely everything and please stay in touch. Sincerely forever, Heidi V. Sun., June 11, 2006 From: "Mike" The bottom line is that YOU are helping to get this information out there and I truly believe this will help people suffering with the problem. Keep doing what’s in your heart! You are showing people that they can get through this. Good job Vick! _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Sat., June 10, 2006 From: "Julie" Thank you so much for doing what your doing and spreading awareness. Julie _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Tue., Feb. 21, 2006 From: Jennifer S. I must confess, your site is really cool!!! Great site, great idea, just all round great work! _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Wed., Jan. 25, 2006 From: "Timmy" Hello From Windy Ventura Ca, I am impressed with the site and commend you on offering a forum to people who cut. Congrats on your success. TG _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Tue, 27 Sept 2005 Dear Vicki, I'm Abby, a high school junior and I can relate very well to your story. You encouraged me, just by reading your home page! _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Thurs., July 28, 2005 From: "Season B." I came across your site and just wanted to say its really awesome and very helpful and reassuring to people that there is help out there and you are not alone. Thanks! _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Wed, July 13, 2005 From: "Sarah B." Dear Vicki, I contacted you a few months ago regarding your website and thanking you for putting something like that site up on the Internet. Anyway, I thought I'd send you a quick email to let you know how things have progressed! I read your book and I want to thank you for an amazing read. It was a real insight and helped me a lot, to see your story through it and with a positive ending. Thanks again for the support you've given me through your book and website. God Bless Sarah _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Fri, June 17, 2005 From: "Brenda N." I am the mother of a 14 year old daughter who has been "cutting" for several months now. She is in therapy and on anti-depressants; but up until now I could not find information about this subject (it seems almost taboo to even bring it up to people). Your site has helped me a great deal...I'm going to go back to it and look around some more as soon as I send this to you! I've already bookmarked it to show to my daughter tomorrow (it's 12:30 pm and she's asleep now). I feel like I can be a better help to her after visiting End All The Pain. At least I hope I can be. Thank you so much for me a place to go to where I can learn to better understand this condition. All my gratitude to you!!! Blessed Be, Brenda _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Wed., April 6, 2005 From: "Harry W." Thank you... It is refreshing to read of your life journey...and most awesome 1) that you made it through alive, and 2) that you now reap the rewards that were denied you throughout your youth...I have been an drug and alcohol counsellor for some 25+ years and now I live and work in the Canadian Arctic, mostly with Aboriginal peoples who have endured horrendous systemic abuse across generations...and your story on forgiveness I would like to use as part of my work...I realize I could cut and paste it (steal it), however, I would like to ask for your permission to do so. Your story brought a smile to my face! It's really awesome to see you, via your story as you are now, hence the thank you. Be well, Harry _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date: Mon., Jan. 24, 2005 From: "Emotionally Ambivalent" Hello, I came across your website while searching for personal depression related pages.... I think you've done a wonderful job with your site, and have helped many people. Thank you for making it, I think there can never be enough resources and places to turn for someone who is suffering from a mental disorder. Thanks alot and take care! |
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